Human being is still one of the strangest creatures on the earth when it comes to emotions. They often tend to tolerate any kind of relationship, even the most abusive ones, just to keep feeding their emotional vulnerability. The stress to keep up with the life in the era today, make us hold on to some emotional anchors. These anchors often serve as memory stimulants too. It plays an important role in stirring up feelings from memories by hearing, touching, tasting, smelling or seeing things that take you down the memory lane. This is the reason that makes it difficult for people to get out of the relationships, which are already stale. Relationships are anchors and the human civilization has yet not properly figured out ways to use anchors in positive manner.
Whatever you are, feeding their mind with, today, they will revert to the same for references, when they are stuck in their lives at any point of time. Human beings have this thing for their childhood memories; it makes them go back to their old days for references to deal with their own challenges.
Growing up, reading the nonsense versions of ‘what men want’ in women magazines, you must know by now, none of it works on real men. The thing that actually works on them is something that women are born with. Feminism. Men are truly incapable of resisting feminism. There is just one more thing other than feminism that could make them fall for you.
It is quite common for women to set down eligibility criteria’s for men, one reason they do that is the fact that they have more options than men do, and thus they are less starved for attention as compared to men. If women filter their options in men to keep themselves from wasting their time on something irrelevant they reduce their possibility of finding a long-term relationship.
This blog aims at the attraction strategies mainly for men. Men need to seduce in order to attract a partner. Here in this blog we will be discussing the same belief to its core in simple steps.
Step 1: The idea is to comfort them
Start with making them feel comfortable when they are near you. A calm and soothing aura should surround you. Women, being a sensible creature are very hard to open if they are not comfortable.
This dark light balance is important in a relationship: Being human, it is understandable to exemplify more of either one of the light or the dark energies. A proper mix in the right proportion of both the light and the dark energies is imperative to maintain the essence of life and zing in your relationship.
How starved are you for a committed relationship? Do you have someone in your life that is like an IV drip or a constant supply of porridge (like Oliver Twist) keeping you from being really starved? This person, or people, gives you just enough attention to keep you from feeling desperate for a relationship, but their attention is not satisfying and doesn’t give you what you need.