This dark light balance is important in a relationship: Being human, it is understandable to exemplify more of either one of the light or the dark energies. A proper mix in the right proportion of both the light and the dark energies is imperative to maintain the essence of life and zing in your relationship.
How starved are you for a committed relationship? Do you have someone in your life that is like an IV drip or a constant supply of porridge (like Oliver Twist) keeping you from being really starved? This person, or people, gives you just enough attention to keep you from feeling desperate for a relationship, but their attention is not satisfying and doesn’t give you what you need.